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Find Out Why Your Dog Jumps Up On You And Other People: Also How To Stop It

 

I lost a tooth.

To be totally accurate, I lost a tooth and a half.

Not today, but a few years back when I was just starting to go into people’s homes to teach them how to train their dogs.

I will never forget this Golden Lab, her name was Clementine, a beautiful dog full of life and energy, friendly as they come and eager to play with the humans in her pack.

But that’s not what comes to my mind when I think of Clementine.

I’ll get to the what-n-why in a minute.

Clementine’s energy was the problem, it was unharnessed and unfocused, and like many dogs I have met, had no idea what to do with it, at least not in a constructive way.

I worked for ten minutes or so building trust with Clementine which wasn’t a problem she loved people to a fault and was eager to interact with me, but it was clear she was used to things being on her terms.

However she had never met someone like me before and it wasn’t long before I was making progress, I began to set the rules of engagement, and she was calming down and going with the flow much better.

I had her so she would sit for 10 seconds before moving in anticipation of the food reward. Before I came on the scene sitting was something only the people of the house did.

Clementine was not the sitting kind of dog.

Bouncing off the walls, knocking stuff over kind of dog, yes,

Sitting kind of dog,. no, her chaotic behavior knew no bounds.

If she was asked to sit, she would, but only for the fraction of a second it took for her butt to hit the floor and bounce right back up, as if her bum was spring-loaded. 🙂

I remember thinking this is going to be a piece of fried chicken, ( I know the saying is, “It’s going to be like a piece of cake”,.. but I don’t like cake”, I do however,.. looovve fried chicken.)

My cholesterol level not so much,

but it they will never know, as we are not on speaking terms right now.

But I digress…

Any hoo,..just when I thought I had this one in the bag, out comes Clementines owners who up till this point had been watching from inside the house.

The lady of the house hit the yard like a tornado, she almost ran toward me saying that she would never have believed that Clementine would be able to sit still like that if she hadn’t seen it with her own eyes.

Her excitement was electric, even I felt it.

It took all of one second for me to figure out where Clementine learned to be so hyped up and excited.

One Reason Dogs Jump Up

Dogs feel what we feel, and Clementine was expressing in a physical way (jumping up, running hog-wild around the house ect),  what her owner lived everyday, and that was a chaotic life style with periodic high levels of excitement and anxiety.

It was in that moment of Clementines owner coming into the backyard that Clementine picked up on her energy and exploded from her sit position in front of me, straight up into my face.

More precisely, her big hard head,. met my pearly whites,.. in a head on tooth collision that didn’t end well for one and half of my front teeth. 😦

How To Stop Your Dog From Jumping Up

One of the best ways that I know of to get your dog to stop jumping up on you is to not reward him for the behavior, either intentionally or unintentionally.

When dogs are little we tend to meet them with excitement and joy and when the pup gets close enough we go down on one or both knees and coax him up on us to play and rough house a little.

Maybe we pet them when they jump up on us, while saying things like, who’s a good boy, what you want?, wanna get the stick?, and we throw a ball or give him treats just because he is so damn cute,..

That is the human thing to do, but in a dogs eyes this is a humongous reward and you can bet he is going to remember all the good things that came when he put his cute little paws up on you.

Fast forward 18 months and things are not so rosey, he now weighs a heck of a lot more than he did when he was 12 weeks old, and now when he greets us by jumping up, he can hurt us and wreck clean clothes.

Your friends and family stop coming for visits.

You try your best to get him to stop, you try every thing you can think of,

Yelling, scolding, turning your back, maybe even giving him a scruff up side the head, but nothing works.

All these attempts to stop your dog from jumping up on you are in and of themselves,..rewards..all be it..unintentional and negative in nature.

One of the ways to begin to fix this problem, is to take stock of the situation and make changes in your behavior in order to influence your dogs behavior.

Remember I said earlier that your dog feels what you feel, so with that in mind ask yourself these questions.

1- Do you act excited to see your dog when you come home?

2- Are you getting angry with your dog in those times when he jumps on you?

If you answered yes to either of these questions then you have to do some inward looking and try hard to not give your dog attention either positive or negative when you first greet them.

Instead of acknowledging your excited dog when you come home, ignore him and go about work with other chores, like getting supper ready or making a cup of coffee.

Ignore your dog like he was not even there, don’t look at him, don’t talk to him, and don’t touch him.

When you dog is calmer then you can say hello, don’t look them straight in the eye because this will cause more anxiety in an already hyper excited mind.

Call your dog to come and at the moment you know he is going to jump on you, look him right in the eye and say,.. “NO!! .. in your best I mean it voice, show your teeth, turn sideways, and don’t move.

When you show a dog your teeth it speaks volumes to the dog in his native language.

You see,..

 

Dogs are repelled by predators, especially if they are showing teeth and looking them right in the eyes,..

As far as predators go, humans are top of the pile.

Don’t take a step backward because this will only make him want to jump on you more.

Stand still,.. be the rock,.. and if he jumps up,.. let him,.. and when he gets no response,.. either positive or negative,.. he will soon learn that there is no reward in jumping up and he will stop.

Remember the more a dog gets rewarded for a behavior the more likely he is to repeat that behavior often.

As long as you stay consistent with minding your own energy,.. and be aware of the way you feel,.. couple that with providing no reward for your dog,.. before long jumping up will be a thing of the past.

If your dog is rebellious and refuses to respond, then remove him from the room and give him a 1 minute time out in a place where he has nothing to do but wait for you to come and get him.

Short time outs are a very effective method of learning for a dog.

Dogs are very social animals,.. and they don’t like being isolated from the rest of their pack, this will help the learning process move more quickly.

Teach your dog to sit, there are literally a hundred things your dog can’t do when he’s sitting,.. and you guessed it,..jumping up is one of them.

Your friends and family will be so impressed, and relieved,.. they will once again want to spend time with you and your good dog.

Be sure to teach everyone how to do this exercise with your dog.

If your dog is behaving like Clementine and has free run of the house,.. your first order of business should be to crate train your dog.

Not only does crate training allow your dog to have place of their own to sleep and feel safe, the crate is a great tool for managing unwanted behavior while you teach your dog the rules of the house.

Talk soon,

Harley

 

 

 

 

 

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Nobody sets out to make mistakes but we are only human and
mistakes go with the territory. I have been observing and living
with dogs for over forty years and I have made many of the
mistakes that I write about in this post, and I want to share with
you what I have learned.

The first time I decided to take it upon myself to get a dog, I
was ten years old, now mind you I had already had two years’
experience working with and being responsible for our two
farm dogs. We had two male German Shepard’s, Nipper
guarded the farm and family, and Sharkey brought the cattle in
from the field as well as provided considerable back up for
Nipper should there be a threat.

When I turned eight years old my Uncle Eldon, told me one
morning at breakfast, that I was old enough to help the family
run the farm where ever I could, so my first job was to tend to
the dogs in the morning.

I learned a lot about dogs and what makes them tick in that
first two years. In my tenth year during the month of February
we lost Sharkey to a pack of coyotes, and thinking back, struck
the whole family like a sledge-hammer. It really felt like we lost
a family member.

It took some time for us to move forward.

In July of that same year I went to the livestock sale with our neighbor
like I always did during the summer when school was out. I didn’t get up
that morning thinking I was going to get a dog today, but we had been
talking about getting a new dog to help us with the cattle.

As it happened I walked into the bay area where farmers would
display the puppies, and kittens they had for sale or give away,
and the first thing I saw, actually the only thing I saw was this
beautiful grey, white and tan puppy. With one ear flopped over
she came straight up to me and lay down at my feet..I was
hooked, I knew right then and there I had to find some way to
take this pup home with me.

I will save the rest of this story for another day, because I do
not want to stray too far off topic, needless to say I did bring
the pup home with me and began my journey of making
mistakes and figuring out how to correct them. I hope by
sharing some of what I have learned with you I can save you
time and help you figure out where you may have been making
some of these mistakes and what you can do about it.

Mistake #1

Having little or no knowledge about the breed of the dog you
get.

For example someone sees a friend who owns a Rottweiler, and he says,
“Man what a beautiful looking dog, I gotta get me one of those!”,
and without becoming informed about the Rottweiler breed, he proceeds
to go out the next day and get a Rottweiler, only to discover the hard
way there’s much more to this power breed than being good-looking.

Sadly the shelters are full of dog that people got for this wrong
reason.

You should always do your homework, read as much as you can
about the breed of dog you are thinking about getting, make
sure to ask people questions who own this breed what their
experiences has been. Then when you sure you can meet the
needs of this breed and are ready to provide this breed with a
balanced and stable home, make the decision. You will then be
prepared to better handle situations when they arise, and they
will.

Mistake #2

Spur of the moment decision to buy.

We have all heard about this scenario, a family is taking a nice
Sunday drive down the road and suddenly they see a sign, Puppies
For Sale or Give Away.

The kids start singing, “We want a puppy!”, and one
parent says to the other, ” We told the kids if they were good
and kept their grades up, they could get a puppy, maybe we
should get one?.” Then without further discussion, except
about which one they should get, the pup is in the car, and on its
way home with them.

The problem comes later,

When the new wears off and the kids no longer feel the same because the
puppy poops and bites and jumps, on them. and Mom and Dad just got it for
the kids, and don’t want the extra work, so sadly another dog ends up in the
shelter.

You should always plan to get a dog or puppy, have a family discussion,
it is not going to be just your dog, it will be the family dog, and each
family member has to be dedicated to taking responsibility for its training
and making sure basic needs are met.

Mistake #3

Interacting with your dog as if they were a person.

This can be very mentally damaging to a dog. While it is a very human thing
to do, it only makes your dog more confused, and can create
unwanted behaviours caused by the dog’s frustration. Bottom
line, your dog is an animal, and should be treated as such, at
least most of the time.

Your dog should be seen as animal first, breed second, and
family pet last.

Out of an entire day, only 1 hour should be spent treating your dog as a
family member or human, the rest of your day should be spent interacting
with your dog as they would be treated in nature, as an animal.

You must provide strong leadership, and create clear and consistent guidelines
to maintain control, and balance with your dog; this will allow your dog to
live in a happy state of mind.

Mistake #4

Inconsistency with daily training routine.

I see it every day,loving dog owners everywhere get caught up in the chaos of
life, and sometimes training their dog isn’t at the top of their
list. Our days are filled with activities that we simply can’t
avoid, and among the hustle & bustle of everyday life, days
can go by before we realize that the dog hasn’t been walked or
played with.

If a dog is left on their own, they will create their own routine
of behaviour, and this is never the best outcome. If a daily
routine of training is not exercised with your dog, it can make
simple things such as walking your dog, or opening your front
door a challenge for you, and your dog.

It is very important to develop a routine of exercise and
training, ideally at the same time each day and have
consistency with command words, and the participation of
everyone who has daily interaction with the dog, working the
same routines. Once you have this routine in place you will see
a huge difference in how your dog behaves and shows you
respect.

Mistake #5

Letting your dog be the boss.

Many times dog owners give in to their dog’s pushy attitude, such
as rooting your hand or arm for affection, barking at you when they
want to play or eat.

Allowing your dog to demand your attention by barking,
jumping, nudging, rooting or other unwanted behaviours is a
very common mistake, usually caused by the dog’s owner not
realizing they are giving their dog leadership.

The answer to this problem is no longer giving in to your dog’s
demands, instead, have the dog do something for you. If your
dog roots your arm for attention, simply make them sit down
before you give them any affection, or if your dog is barking
because they want food, toys, or other rewards, simply make
them sit down and wait for them to be silent before you reward
them.

As long as this routine is consistent you will see great results in
your dog’s behavior.

There are many more common mistakes that we all have made,
and we will be covering those in a later guide, in the meantime
review this first five mistakes and work hard to provide strong
and fair leadership for your dog, when you put in the time the
reward is more than worth the effort. You will develop a trusting
relationship with your dog.

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all the best

Harley

 

The reason a dog likes to jump up on you and other people is because this behavior has been rewarded and reinforced, so it becomes quite natural for your dog to get attention this way. In this post we will take a look at how to train a dog to stop jumping up on you and other people.

 

Does this scenario describe your situation?

 

You arrive home from work, and your dog hears you as soon as your car starts in the drive, by the time you reach the door, he is waiting on the other side, you can hear the barking, whining, and excited commotion.

 

As soon as you open the door, he pounces and jumps licking, pushing and jumping some more.

 

His head hits you under the chin and you bite your tongue, and through all this you are saying something like, “Hey boy”, Daddy’s home”, Did you miss your Momma?”, “Who’s a good boy”, or it could be a hail of, “Get down”, Get off”, “Will you go lay down”, “Bad dog”.

 

What you might not realize is that either way, regardless if you greet him with happiness and joy or anger and frustration, to your dog it is all a reward for the behavior, you see a dog don’t care if it’s good or bad attention, they just want you to interact with them.

 

In order to change this behavior you must first make a commitment to training your dog to respond in a manner that you will like, for example, I train my dogs to sit, when a dog is sitting there are a 100 other things he can’t do, and jumping up on you and other people is just one of them.

 

You must also resign your self to a different way of leaving and coming back to your dog. This will require you to understand that actions speak way louder than words. When you leave in the morning you say nothing to your dog, and when you come home, you say nothing, if he is excited you have him sit or go to his place to calm down, and when he is calm, you can then interact with him.

 

Remember;, an excited dog is an unstable dog, and most behavioral problems stem from this frame of mind. Once you have changed your mind-set, you will be well on your way to learning how to train a dog to stop jumping on you and other people.

 

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